Splitting the Check at a Restaurant: A Complete Guide
The Check Arrives. Now What?
That moment of silence when the check hits the table. Everyone glances at it. No one reaches for it.
How you handle this moment depends on the situation. Let's break down your options.
Option 1: Ask for Separate Checks
Tell your server at the START of the meal that you'd like separate checks.
Pros:
Everyone pays exactly what they ordered
No math required
Server handles it
Cons:
Some restaurants don't allow it
Can slow down service
Doesn't work well for shared appetizers
Best for: Work lunches, casual dining, groups of 4 or fewer
Option 2: One Person Pays, Others Venmo
One hero puts the whole bill on their card. Everyone else pays them back.
Pros:
Fast checkout
Credit card points for the payer
Works anywhere
Cons:
Requires trust
Someone has to do the math
Risk of "I'll pay you later" → never
Best for: Close friend groups, when you have a bill splitting app
Option 3: Split Evenly
Divide the total by number of people. Everyone pays the same.
Pros:
Dead simple
Fast
Cons:
Unfair if orders varied
Breeds resentment over time
Best for: When everyone ordered similarly, or with close friends who rotate treating
Option 4: Itemized Split with an App
Scan the receipt, assign items, send payment requests.
Pros:
Perfectly fair
Fast (with the right app)
Handles tax and tip correctly
Cons:
Requires everyone to have Venmo (or similar)
Best for: Every situation, honestly
What About Tax and Tip?
This is where most manual splits go wrong.
Wrong way: Add up items, split tax and tip evenly
Right way: Split tax and tip proportionally based on what each person ordered
If you ordered 25% of the food, you pay 25% of the tax and tip. Apps like Checkify do this automatically.
Restaurant Etiquette Tips
Tell the server early if you want separate checks
Don't ask to split at fine dining restaurants (just don't)
Tip on the pre-tax amount (or post-tax, but be consistent)
Round up — nobody likes chasing down 37 cents
Conclusion
There's no single "right" way to split a check. But for the fairest, fastest, least-awkward option, let technology do the work.
Download Checkify → and split your next restaurant bill in under a minute.




